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All the children would beg Uncle Andy to take them on walks near the little lake in Grandma's backyard. They really loved going out with him each day! He's such a great uncle to them- the boys think the world of Andy. He rock climbs, he's really strong, very funny, he wears cool clothes, owns his own business, and he plays with the boys. They think he's just about perfect.
Every visit the grandchildren look forward to seeing Grandma's pop-up book collection. Nathan's mom has collected pop-up books for years. It's so much fun to see their favorite books again. We all gather together on her bed to listen to the stories- even some of the adult children squeezed onto the bed to watch the books unfold. I think they will always remember Grandma Kingsley as reading books to them. A trip to her house wouldn't be complete without this story time.
As if feeding huge crowds of guests (a house full of 19 people for 2 weeks!) full meals three times a day weren't enough, Grandma offered to give all the men and boys haircuts. She did 7 haircuts in a row- between cooking lunch and dinner. Isn't she amazing? Do you see why I want to be like her? She does this all while cheerfully smiling and laughing. She's the type of person that naturally attracts people. I noticed that wherever she was in the house, that is where the people gathered to enjoy chatting. Like flies to honey.
I was still quite sick on our trip, but it was such a huge blessing to have someone else cooking meals for my children and doing the dishes each day. It was so nice to be able to stay in bed and not worry about the work I should be doing. I have a hard time ignoring the messes when I should rest. When I am at home, I usually try to push myself too hard and 'power through' the fatigue so I can have a clean sink or clean floor. I really appreciated all of her kindness so much!
We decided to do a formal dinner for Christmas Eve this year. We fed our children their own dinner, then tucked them away downstairs. The adults enjoyed a late dinner on the family fine china. It was delightful to have a formal affair together and laugh together. The meal was scrumptious, even though I was still not able to partake of much. I decided it was actually a mixed blessing being sick over the holidays- all the candies, cookies, and other treats were so unappealing to me, so I didn't gain any weight during all the weeks of feasting.
Nathan's family has a tradition of letting the children all sleep in the parent's room on Christmas Eve so they can all wake up together. Uncle Andy really wanted everyone to squeeze into the room together, so he covered the entire bedroom floor with mattresses and blankets. Everyone fit so snuggly in this one bedroom and there was no spare floor space anywhere. I really wish I had taken a picture of it!
Daniel and Matthew really love playing with Bucky Balls. They are THE neatest toy around. It's a bunch of individual, really powerful magnets. They can be manipulated in a million ways to create all sorts of shapes. They are so incredibly fun to play with, and it fosters creativity. Many of their uncles have Bucky Balls, and Daniel would play with them for hours. It's really a shame that I can't give them their own sets- the magnets are too dangerous to have in the house with a new baby on the way. Much of Christmas break was spent on the floor playing with these magnets.
We all drove to the Science Museum in St. Louis one day. We spent a few hours there enjoying the Math puzzles and Natural Science section. There was a room where the children could play with hands-on science toys for an hour. Daniel's favorite part was the giant cockroaches. He loved playing with them while I cringed. He giggled in delight the entire time and exclaimed, "Isn't it so cute?"
It was such a pleasure to spend so much time with uplifting company over Christmas. We had 9 out of Nathan's 10 siblings all together this year. With our family living scattered all over the country from Alaska to Georgia, this is a rare event. We played games every night until we couldn't force our eyes to stay open, we feasted every day on delicious treats and yummy meals, we played in the snow, read scriptures together every night, conspired together over secret gifts for each other, and explored St. Louis. It was such a memorable vacation and I left that home with my emotional and spiritual batteries refueled. Isn't that the perfect way to return from a vacation? I'm always so thankful to be a part of this family!
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